Commitment is a very important ingredient of life. It is the truest sign that we believe in something and shows how serious we are about it. Commitment gives us focus, shows how responsible we are and how determined we are to make our visions possible. Everyone is committed to someone or something. It could be your health, career or family. The character of people can be assessed by their levels of commitment. Relationships that lack serious commitment do not last, and people get fired from their jobs when they are not committed. The question is, how committed are you? We cannot answer this question honestly without taking a closer and deeper look at our values if we know them, and if we don’t maybe it’s time we try to identify them?
The first key to commitment is goal setting. Unless we set goals
that are meaningful, there will not be accompanying motivation to attain the
goal(s). Take the case of a teenager whose dream is to become an engineer. The
student must begin to develop the skills needed for a professional training in
engineering and he or she must begin to make choices that will help foster that
desire, such as choices about who to be friends with, how best to use theirs or
things, or taking college level courses in Mathematics, Physics and Chemistry.
The second key to commitment is to willingly exert oneself for the
greater good, even when it is uncomfortable. For example, the young prospective
engineer may need to sacrifice engaging playing Facebook chat, computer games or
spend hours watching hours of television. So, instead of attending parties or
engaging in wild teenager pranks, the focused will look for a more creative and
productive opportunities such as internships.
The third key to commitment is re-commitment. A person of
integrity should be concerned about the type of progress he or she is making.
Similarly, when we constantly re-evaluate the levels of commitment, it helps to
put things into a clearer perspective. This enables us to separate mere words from
action and dreams from reality. On the other hand, if we are satisfied with the
result we are getting, it enhances our self-esteem, and makes life
worthwhile. So as we journey through life, let us take the time to ask
the tough questions:
1. Have
I been committed to whatever or whomever?
2. Does
my behaviors reflect the values or person I am supposed to be
committed to?
3. Are
my choices compatible with my dreams?
4. What
do I need to improve? Change?
These are the types of questions I have been asking myself at this
time in my religious formation. What does it mean to live a life completely
dedicated to God? Are my behaviors, choices and actions compatible with my
dream of becoming a Sister of Divine Providence? As a Christian, I know that it
is impossible to live a committed life without first acknowledging that “all
good and perfect gift comes from God” (James 1: 17), including the gift to
seek, love and serve him. The
Catechism of the Catholic Church captured
this truth clearly. Part 1, section 1 of the article on the Profession of Faith states that the desire for God is
written in the human heart, because they are created by God and for God; and
God never ceases to draw them to himself. In other words, only in God can I
find true happiness. The article also explained that God wants us to be in
communion with him so that I can know and do his will.
God is always with me and has
brought me to this moment of my life. This is great! I do not think that there
is any commitment that is greater than God’s commitment to us and his
commitment continues for all time. In John 14:3, Jesus told his disciples that
he is going to prepare a place for them so that where he is, they will be as
well. It encourages me to know that God is watching out for me much more
than my desire to return his love, because I know I can’t. The more I
contemplate God through our Congregation, the more it is clear to me that our
beloved founder John Martin Moye understood what total commitment to God means.
Everything he did: his intentions, writings, and actions were initiated,
executed and sustained by Providence because he abandoned all to Divine Grace.
Until his last breath, he prayed for, preached, taught, wrote about the reign
of God. Like Father Moye, I am just going to continue to let God dwell in my
heart through faith so that I may be grounded in his love (Ephesian 3:17). Like
Father Moye, I have accepted Jesus as my way, my truth and my life and as his
sheep, I will continue to strive to listen to his voice and follow him. I will
not be discouraged with my shortcomings because the Lord is with me and will
always uphold me (Isiah 41:10). Commitment, then, is to realize that you have
been chosen by God, that you are special to him and that he is waiting to open
your eyes, to discover his unconditional love so that you can return it to him
through your love and service for others.
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